Doggers Having Fun
This story appeared in the Daily Mirror today as dogging continues to get ever more mainstream, and is re-published here in its entirety. All copyrights acknowledged.
My fiancee wants to try dogging – but I’m not sure I want to
Dear Coleen,
I’ve been in a close relationship with my fiancee for over five years. We have a good sex life and have pushed the boundaries to make things as exciting as they were when we first met.
But recently, she’s started to mention swinging and dogging. It may be a fantasy for a lot of men to be in a threesome with two ladies, but I’m not sure I want to do it for real.
I find the idea of dogging with loads of men around disgusting, but she keeps talking about it.
It makes me doubt whether I’m ready to marry her and I’m beginning to wonder if she’s right for me. Any advice would be gratefully received.
Coleen says..
Fantasies are great if you’re both on the same wavelength and when they stay in the bedroom. The problem comes when one of you wants to make it real and the other doesn’t.
You’ve obviously enjoyed fantasising, but you must be honest with your fiancee and tell her if that’s the sort of husband she’s after, you’re never going to be that person.
You question her suitability as a wife, but she might also re-assess if you’re right for her. There are lots of guys out there who’d be into dogging, but you’re not. Maybe, she’s happy to talk about these fantasies and not actually carry them out, but you have to start the conversation.
