First and foremost I have to point out that I am not, or have never been, into dogging !

However, this afternoon I unwittingly pulled into a lay-by and witnessed and was approached by doggers. I know, me, dogging!


I had gone to deliver something to a house in Narborough, Leicestershire and was on my way back to our friends in Sapcote, also Leicestershire when the phone went, my car kit answered automatically and it was a call I was awaiting from the bank. There was a lay-by immediately on my left so I pulled straight in, not thinking twice about it. I mean for goodness sake it’s a lay-by, aren’t they for tired drivers to pull into for a rest or to take a call, just like I was doing.

I was quite surprised by how busy the lay-by was at 4:30pm on a Friday afternoon but that was the only thing out of the ordinary. Pretty much as soon a I pulled in a car that was about 20 metres behind me when I came to a stop pulled forward, right up behind me and flashed his lights at me.

“Weird” I thought and carried on with my phone call, he did it again. “Very weird” I thought and carried on with the phone call and then he did it again. I told the lovely bank lady I was talking to what was happening and why I sounded distracted and we laughed that he probably thought I was someone he was waiting for and he’d move on shortly.

The car then pulled out and drove very slowly past me with this very excited looking fella waving slowly at me. I looked away, made sure the doors were locked, looked round to check on my sleeping baby in the back and carried on my phone call. He pulled off.

A few minutes later the same car pulled back up behind me having exited the lay-by, turned around and re-entered. This time he was further back, about 5 metres away.

I was in this lay-by a total of 6 minutes, I know this because the phone call was 7 minutes long. It was about 30 seconds before I pulled into the lay-by and the same at the other end of the conversation. In this 6 minutes about 20 cars entered the already busy lay-by, pulled up to other cars, people got out, people got in, all while I was trying to concentrate on a conversation about life insurance.

In addition to all of these cars pulling in, 3 pulled up alongside me, wound down their windows, waved and gestured at me and on being ignored drove on. It never occurred to me what it was all about. Strange I thought, but all were professional looking business men that pulled up alongside and there was a mix of couples and single men in the other cars that passed me.

As I pulled out of the lay-by, now more than a little freaked out by what was going on and after having a conversation with the bank lady about it we decided it was decidedly dodgy and I should exit whilst on the phone and she’d hang up once I was away. On the way out I passed a group of cars surrounded by people looking in. It then hit me, this was clearly dogging in action and I’d been innocently sat watching!

How naive could I be? On arrival at my friends house her son was just arriving home from University and I cautiously asked him if he knew anything about the lay-by, he gave me a “look” and said we’d Google it when we got inside.

He then looked up dogging etiquette and apparently if you want someone to follow you to a more secluded spot then flash your headlights once at them. If they are interested then they will follow. If you want your audience to touch and interact with you then roll down your window or open the car doors.

Well, who knew?! Not sure what to think about it all really. Do I feel violated? Yes a bit. Do I feel stupid? Very. Do I feel naive? Incredibly. Will I be pulling into lay-by’s thinking they are merely a place to stop for a rest again? Never!

There you have it – a single mum writing up her Accidental Dogging story. The original post can be found at PinkWellies Blog – and if you want to read all about her baby you can do so at her blog too.

Missing The Bus at the Canterbury Park and Ride

The Sturry Road park and ride is operated by Canterbury City Council and spokesman Rob Davies had this to say: “We are naturally concerned to hear about this. We have CCTV cameras at the park and ride site so if any suspicious behaviour is spotted we will be able to report it.”

He confirmed they have not seen any “Lewd Liaisons” on their CCTV cameras, so why Kent Online would suggest that dogging is going on at this Park and Ride is beyond us.

Local man Micko confirmed “I think there are more CCTV cameras on this site than there are in Hollywood so people would be mugs to go dogging there.”

Our view is this is a bit of sloppy reporting by Kent Online and they have missed the bus, are rumour mongering and mischief making – and that they should investigate their facts properly. Or maybe we are wrong and they know something we don’t. Either way, let us know here by filling in the form and Contact Dogging Direct or better still, add a comment below.

Footnote:- Here is the link to the story by Kent Online.

One of the most popular dogging on Kindle e-books is called Dogging Slut – an erotic story written by Imogen Linn. It’s a great read, and here is an extract from the book….

Cocooned by the car, she felt both exposed and protected as she performed. Anita stared at the cocks around her, teasing the men by looking up to catch their eyes and lick her lips, or pouting outrageously as she rubbed particularly hard at her swollen clitoris.

She was getting more and more aroused, now, her whole body writhing in the seat as she dug her fingers into her pussy, bracing herself with a hand on the glass of her window. She felt something bumping against the glass, and saw a hard cock being pressed to the glass outside, where her hand was.

Anita smiled, wickedly, and started sliding her hand up and down the window glass, as if stroking the hard shaft. The men soon picked up the game, and several cocks were soon pressed to the window. She shifted in her seat and used both hands on the glass, going from cock to cock and ‘stroking’ them, looking into their owners’ eyes, when they would meet her gaze, and licking her lips.

Her face was just a few inches from the glass, her hands spread to cover two cocks, when she saw a third, directly in front of her, the purple head pointed at her face, a hand blurring up and down the hard shaft as the man jerked off over the beautiful naked slut in the car before him.

Anita had an idea. Cupping her breasts in her hands, she pressed them to the window, directly in front of his cock – the glass cold and hard against her sensitive nipples. She looked him in the eye and raised an eyebrow, grinning at him in a silent challenge to spray her beautiful tits with his seed. She felt the impact as his cum hit the window, splashing against the glass and slowly trickling down.

Anita kept her eyes on his as she pressed her face to the window, opening her mouth and sweeping her tongue up the glass. The hot wave of arousal she felt as she mimed licking up a stranger’s cum, in front of many more, was breathtaking. She let out something between a moan and a laugh as it coursed through her.

Her mind seemed fogged with lust, and the glass was suddenly intolerable – she wanted to feel those hot, hard cocks in her hands. Anita watched her own hand, which seemed to be acting all by itself, as her finger pressed the button to wind the window down…


Phew – that’s got us all hot – and this is just an extract – it gets a lot steamier. It is so easy to download this book for your Kindle from Amazon.  Haven’t got a Kindle yet? Then check out the latest Kindle models now.

If this gets you in the mood you should really check out this Where To Go Dogging guide.

Here is the abridged version of the letter, with Jane’s reply.

Every Saturday night I babysit for my boss and her husband, and every Saturday he and I have sex in his car on the way home.  His wife ­always insists that he drives me back, but we’ve got into a habit of ­taking a detour into a car park for a romp on the back seat.

It’s a popular dogging spot, but there’s rarely anyone there when we pull up after midnight. He puts his hand on my knee and says: “How about it?” And then we have steamy, grunty sex. This has been going on for about five months now and I don’t really know what it means or where it’s leading.

I’m 19 and like sex. I don’t have a boyfriend right now and so this old guy is quite handy. He’s not revolting, but I don’t particularly fancy him either. It’s bit like a having a greasy ­kebab on the way home from a drunken night out – it seems like a good idea at the time but makes you feel a bit sick and guilty in the morning.

I’ve been working for my boss in her clothes shop for a year. She’s not a great payer so the ­babysitting money comes in handy. I don’t think she has the ­slightest idea that her precious husband is having sex with me. She’s always going on about what a great guy he is.  I once heard her say that she trusts him because he’s always truthful and would never cheat. That’s a laugh.  Do you think he actually likes me or is just a user?

Taking Advantage

Agony Aunt Jane replies….

You claim that having sex with this man is quite handy, but it’s not healthy. You have no relationship with him. What you have is sneaky, sordid and very grubby.

Is this guy using you? Yes, he’s certainly taking advantage of the situation. But you’re a willing partner and you’re using him too.

So there you have it – an Agony Aunt telling a young girl she is being used. What a surprise.

Meantime, all copyrights to The Daily Star are acknowledged for the source material used in this post.

In response to members requests, Secrets, in Sunderland, wants to create a special dogging room complete with a real full sized car so that its members can experience and enjoy dogging indoors.

A regular at Secrets, who gave her name as Roxie, stated “I have never actually been dogging before – but I have always wanted to. I quite fancy the prospect of dogging indoors at Secrets. I just love being watched, this will be very exciting. It will be certainly be warmer indoors, than outdoors in some damp car park, and this way I won’t have to wear any thermals. Come to think of it, I won’t have to wear any panties at all!”

Indoor Dogging

Secrets is also going to use a section of its building for overnight accommodation, so that the doggers and swingers have somewhere to spend the night. Roxie commented “That sounds great – I do like the idea of staying the night rather than going elsewhere. This way I won’t even have to change clothes – although I may have to change rooms during the night ”

Sunderland City Council have asked the venue, on Villiers Street, Sunderland, to apply for planning permission, which would allow those with concerns to submit official objections.

Those objecting may well include Father Chris Jackson, who is parish priest of Our Lady Queen of Peace Catholic Church, in Penshaw, Sunderland as he was among those to speak out against the club’s expansion plans, describing Indoors Dogging as ‘the last thing Sunderland needs’!

Sam Bilcher, who works in the area, said the club does not bother him. “We’re here nine to five so it’s not going to affect us at all and this area tends to be dead after 6pm. I suppose I can sympathise with anyone living round here but it’s not very residential so I guess that’s why they chose it.” he said.

Colleague Neal Wright said: “I don’t think they’re doing any harm, I could think of worse things to be opening along there. As long as no-one’s getting hurt then what’s the fuss? I bet no-one would even notice it if they didn’t know it was there.”

A statement on the Secrets website reads: ‘We offer a relaxed and friendly environment to meet like-minded people. All new members are shown around and given chance to ask questions. We are a totally non-pushy venue”. The swingers club wants to “encourage swinging in every way, shape and form” and there is no suggestion that sex is being sold at Secrets, meaning it is not breaking the law. Yes, swinging – where couples swap sexual partners – is legal so if you live in the area Secrets will soon be the place to go if you want to try dogging indoors.

Meantime, to check out where you can go dogging outdoors throughout the UK, check out this Dogging Locations guide.

In her profile Jo says….

“When I am feeling horny I like to get guys to come over and fuck me bareback , cum in my pussy (if you are reluctant or put off by this then please move on to some other profile) and then leave. No idle chat, just take me, fuck me and go..but I am fussy and often greedy. I am VERY spontaneous..so I wont make ‘plans’ a few days or weeks in advance.”

“I am a sensual and passionate lover, I love being ‘manhandled’ and always aim to satisfy those who are deserving. I do read profiles and messages very carefully and make swift decision on how well it is written.”

You’ve got us all horny here Jo, but she hasn’t finished yet….

“I have experience with girls and groups and am not easily impressed. I get checked at the clinic regularly. I have very short attention span so I’m not interested in an all-nighter. I am always looking for bigger and better dicks (assuming you know how to use it), if you are not well-endowed then you can always make it up by bringing some friends along haha!”

“I don’t want a relationship (nor am I interested in being wined & dined).”

Dogger Jo

If you would like to see others like her, visit the main Dogging Direct site. If you want to see where Avon doggers go, check out this where to go Dogging in Avon guide – and with a bit of luck, you might bump into Jo!

1. Thou shalt not block thine neighbour’s view. Take care thou dost not obscure the sight of thy fellow dogger, and yield the right of way to those who arrived before you.
2. Thou shalt look with thine eyes, not with thine hands, until invited. Layest not thine hands upon a person without their explicit verbal permission.
3. Thou shalt wear thine own rubbers. Thou shalt adorn thine male organs with the finest sheaths of latex for the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy.
4. Thou shalt covet thy neighbour’s wife. Thou shalt swing and make merry with thine own mate and all other consenting parties.
5. Heed the sanctity of a woman’s right to refuse. What part of “No” dost thou not understand, thou pushy bastard?
6. Honour thy neighbor’s anonymity. Thou shalt not expose or otherwise compromise the privacy of thine fellow doggers.
7. Thou shalt not destroy public property nor trespass upon private property. The country parks, beauty spots, lovers’ lanes and car parks of the land shall not be desecrated.
8. Thou shalt not fornicate before innocents. Keep thine revelries from the eyes of children and unsuspecting passers by, and refrain from disturbing the peace and attracting attention.
9. Thou shalt honour the laws, both while parking and dogging. Thou shall park legally and engage the parking brake when at rest and thou shall not break the laws of the land.
10. Thou shalt clean up after thine own self. Before thou departest, gather unto thee all of thine used condoms, torn wrappers, discarded tissues and other rubbish, and dispose of them in a bin.

Want to know more about dogging? Then check out this dogging FAQ page which will hopefully answer all of your questions about dogging.

If you don’t understand Olde English, a modern way to interpret the unofficial dogging commandments list above is as foloows :-

1. Be polite to fellow doggers and give them right of way if they arrive before you.
2. Ask before joining in with dogging couples.
3. Make sure you are prepared for safe sex and take condoms with you.
4. Only have sex with consenting parties.
5. Remember that a woman always has the right to refuse.
6. Do not expose or compromise the privacy of fellow doggers.
7. Do not destroy public property or trespass upon private property.
8. Do not disturb the peace or any unsuspecting non dogging folks.
9. Respect the laws of the land.
10. Remember to clean up after yourself. Make sure you dispose of rubbish properly.

Yes, this is Britain in 2012, with the police secretly filming people going about their peaceful lawful lives.

Details of vehicles visiting Cannock Chase will be logged by the police to allow them “to gather evidence” against individuals, with policemen actually being deployed to hand out leaflets advising people the area is a well known dogging location.

Muttley

South Staffordshire Police have announced that their operation to tackle dogging at Cannock Chase will be called Operation Muttley! (you just couldn’t make it up)

For those of you too young to know who Muttley was, he was the faithful dog of accident prone Dick Dastardly in the hugely popular TV series Wacky Races.

Muttley first appeared in Wacky Races in 1968 as the sidekick of Dick Dastardly and he often used to snigger at Dastardly’s strange antics. Dick and Muttley were later paired together in various series and were portrayed as bumbling fools.

Dick Dastardly

Inspector Donna Gibbs, who may end up being known as Donna Dastardly, from South Staffordshire police said: “In order to address concerns that have been raised we are conducting high visibility patrols right across the area, and are providing information to visitors at the locations identified.”

“We are seeking to both raise awareness of the problem and to deter any such inappropriate behaviour in the future in order to return the beauty spot to its former status, as a safe place for families to visit.”

She said members of the community had raised concerns about the issue at Cannock Chase, which for many years has been recognised as a spot for dogging activity, during which people engage in sexual acts in public or watch others doing so.

She said there had been an increase of reports following improved weather.

Over the coming weeks, police will be handing out leaflets warning that the area is a location where dogging takes place. Yes, that really is what the Police will be doing. Owners of vehicles seen for a second time will be sent letters – although it was not stated what would be in these letters.

Cannock Chase is of course famous as the location where footballer Stan Collymore used to enjoy dogging with strangers and it was Collymore who in many ways brought dogging to the attention of people who had never heard of the phrase before.

Stan Collymore hit the headlines back in 2004 when he was, ahem, exposed by undercover reporters from The Sun when he was out dogging in Cannock Chase. In the feature Collymore admitted “I’ve been to dogging sites maybe a dozen to fifteen times and, yes, I have taken part and had sex.” You can read more about the Stan Collymore Dogging episode here.

We say if dogging is your cup of tea, and you act within the laws of the land, you are entitled to be left alone and not be filmed by the Police. To check out where you can go dogging throughout the UK, including dogging spots in Staffordshire, check out this Dogging Spots guide.